This world is crazy. Our generation is over obsessing over the looks, the flat stomach but in the same time everyone seems to be so pro equality, self love and all of these positive headlines. So why people are still suffering from depression or self hate if we all want the same thing which is self loving generation? Of course I am not talking about vanity, please don't mix this things up. Self love or confidence are in no way vanity on optimal level. Self love is when you are able to put your great features over your imperfections and adore that amazing person you are. After all, your body is just a body and all that matters is personality. Of course looks matter, we all know that and there is no point in denying it but they are just a little part of you, not all of you. We need to keep that in our minds.
Sometimes I see these beautiful girls crying over a little bit of fat on their belly or the fact that they don't have the size two. Honestly who cares? No matter how hard you try your personality will always be bigger and more important than what your body is like. So teach yourself that your perception of yourself isn't everyone's perception of you. Well all value different features both body and personalitywise, so instead of hating yourself, work on yourself and look for somebody who will fall in love with your perfect imperfections.
Now it is your time to pick, which side of the picture are you? Hateful or loving? Depressed or happy? I hope you like your choices and that they make you happy. If not, it's never too late to make a change.
